Taking on The Myth That Women Don’t Like Sex
Apparently women like sex!
Of all the warped, modern notions about sex, this is probably one of the most ridiculous notions that a majority of people have been brainwashed into having.
It is the myth that all men are depraved animals who will fall all over themselves for an ounce of boobage, while women are pristine moral puritans who hate sex, but must do it as some chore to please men in exchange for stuff.
If there are a lot of women unsatisfied with their sex lives, it’s probably because they live in a culture that prioritizes male sexual desire over female sexuality.
A majority of sex magazines these days are replete with “how to please your man” type articles, but finding Sasquatch is easier than finding a good article that tells women how to please themselves – or that tell men how to please the ladies for that matter.
In ancient times, some people believed that women liked sex more than men.
More Openness On the Subjects of Kink and Domination
While more people are becoming open about sex, Kink and Domination are still taboo topics.
There still isn’t much publicity for leather rebels in bed so to speak.
In a culture that places a high value on social equality, one can feel weird about wanting to be the dominant or submissive partner sexually.
I suppose “50 Shades of Boring” was the big book to bust out kink to the mainstream.
But even this book promoted the message of an “innocent and virginal” heroine with a deeply psychologically disturbed kinky boyfriend.
Surprise – surprise – there are many sane folk out there (male and female) who enjoy the interplay of a pain and power.
This is a desire that people shouldn’t feel guilty or weird about – as long as they can have an open discussion with their partner.
And who knows, maybe once you open up, you may find that your vanilla buddy has a penchant for whips and chains.
So Stop Feeling Guilty!
We are all a product of sex.
Most of us desire sex at some point…to some degree.
Some may want it once a month; Others might want it 3 times a day; And a few rare individuals may want it never.
In the same way that everyone desires food and water, most people also have a built in desire for love and sexual gratification.
It’s part of our programming!
This is only a human need.
I’m not saying that everyone is entitled to have sex whenever they want.
But I’m saying that you shouldn’t feel guilty about having sexual urges.
However, that doesn’t mean that sexual decorum goes out the window.
The 1960’s on one hand was a revolutionary time.
Yet without any rules or restrictions in the world of “free love,” we also got “free STD’s and free pregnancies!”
Therefore, we should still be careful to use protection and who we decide to fuck (having sex with a psycho could ruin the rest of your life).
I’m not saying there shouldn’t be rules.
But I’m saying that the topic of sex shouldn’t be one of guilt and shame.
So Happy New Year All.
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